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The Storyteller: Finding the strength of an army

Anderson mother, hooked on drugs, talks about turning her life around

Lorin Larason of Anderson said she is thankful for all those who helped her get beyond a troubled past of drugs, alcohol and homelessness to soon graduating from Anderson University and working to help TeenImpact in Anderson School District Three.

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Lorin Larason of Anderson said she is thankful for all those who helped her get beyond a troubled past of drugs, alcohol and homelessness to soon graduating from Anderson University and working to help TeenImpact in Anderson School District Three.

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— Sun glistens off Katie Grace’s golden blonde hair as she sits atop a grass-green picnic table. Donned in her favorite color, pink, she takes center stage in the conversation for a minute. “Play with me, mommy,” she pleads.

Katie Grace wraps her 3-year-old hands around a tiny toy. A few minutes later, she’s onto to something else. She has a bowl of Cheerio snack mix. She holds it out and offers to share.

All the while, her mother, 25-year-old Lorin Larason is telling a very grown-up story — a tale that she may one day pass on to her daughter if she has the courage.

It is a story of well-built foundations, ignorance of youth, bad choices and reclaimed faith.

Larason admits there are some clichés in her story too. But that doesn’t make the parts of her story any less meaningful, any less tragic in parts or hopeful in others.

“I tell everybody that the Salvation Army saved my life,” Larason said.

Saved her life from lies, a path — that she admits could have led to jail, prostitution and the loss of her daughter — and from an addiction to a myriad of drugs, including cocaine.

To see her now, none of that is apparent. She is the picture of a loving mother, one who has brought her daughter to a park on sunny afternoon so she can use up some of that toddler energy on the jungle gym.

It started in high school, Larason says.

She didn’t fit in. But who does in high school?

And she was in her senior year, riding around with a group of kids. They were drinking. One of them had some marijuana and offered it to Larason. She wasn’t raised in a home where this kind of behavior was acceptable, she says, but the choice seemed harmless at the time.

Then the drugs played a trick on her. They made her feel safe.

And for a while, she was. She was still at home, still under her parents’ watchful eye. Things changed when she went to away to a horse farm for a summer before she started her first semester at Clemson University.

Larason was away from friends, family and in the middle of nowhere, she says.

By the time she finished her summer away from home and landed on Clemson’s campus, Larason was “ready to party.”

“I have some really bad tapes that I have to play in my head in order to stay sober,” Larason says.

She enrolled at Clemson University as an agriculture and applied economics major. Most of the time, though, Larason didn’t even make it to class. She slept through them or she found herself just finishing up a round of late-night partying and wasn’t sober enough to make it. By this point, her experiment with marijuana was leading her to acid, Xanax and cocaine.

“Cocaine was my drug of choice,” she says.

Three semesters later Larason was on academic probation and her parents made her go to Tri-County Technical College. She didn’t cut it there either. Half-way through the semester she dropped out. And then she was introduced to crack cocaine.

This young woman, with waves of brown hair flowing down across her shoulders and a still-baby quality to her face, was stealing from those who loved her most.

At the age of 20, she was no longer a college student. Two years later she had Katie Grace. She had been evicted from several apartments. Her parents were nearing the end of their rope. Her friends were fewer and fewer. She even spent time in jail.

Finally, Larason was evicted out of an apartment in Greenville.

She was on the verge of losing her daughter – who was really being taken care of by her parents already. And she had nowhere to go.

“I had used up all my resources,” Larason says. “Nobody trusted me.”

So she made a call to the Salvation Army in Anderson. “When I called the Salvation Army, I had tears rolling down my face the whole time.”

When she arrived at the Army’s shelter near Anderson’s downtown, Larason had the clothes on her back and a duffel bag. The moment she sat on the bed in her new-found living quarters, she felt waves of guilt and shame hit her. She wasn’t raised this way. A foundation her family built so many years ago came back. The drugs revealed their evil. They had lied to her. She wasn’t safe.

“I realized that unless I wanted to go back out there and die I needed to do something,” Larason said. “I felt like if I did the right thing from that day forward, I was going to be OK.”

On Oct. 15 – in about two weeks – she will celebrate two years of being sober.

Just a few weeks ago, she was named as an AmeriCorp volunteer and is working with United Way of Anderson County. Katie Grace is back with her, they both attend NewSpring Community Church and she has her own place again.

She admits that her climb back up to sobriety hasn’t been made alone.

This young mother has had the help of God, friends, family and several of Anderson’s non-profits — like the Salvation Army, United Way of Anderson County and the Anderson Interfaith Ministries’ Women and Children Succeeding program.

In December 2009, if you ride by the Anderson University campus, you might see Larason in her graduation robe, smiling with a diploma in her hand. This time, though, she will graduate with a degree in human services and resources. Larason said it’s time for her to give back.

“That’s the best way for me to say thank you.”

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Lorin, I am so proud of you, as I read this story, tears just poured down my cheeks, feeling bad that you had to go through this time, and tears of joy for the happiness you have found. Also, tears for my daughter who is still out there living the life that you lived, I, like your parents, have her children, 'two wonderful grandsons' who mean the world to me, who, in return love me, and I know they miss thier mama. Just about ever day the youngest one says to me, 'when can we go live with mama again?' It breaks my heart to know that they are hurting so bad, but I just try to love them more, and reassure them, that, one day,,,'mama' will be able to take care of them again. My prayer for her every day is, that one day, "soon" she will hit 'rock bottom' and realize, like you that there is more to life than drugs, and the lifestyle that she is living.
God bless you and your beautiful "Katie Grace" as you go forward in a peacefull and happy life. My prayers are with you.


You go girl! Your courage to step forward and share your so personal life deserves a Purple Heart. Your candor and willingness to expose your heart, is no less worthy than a soldier on the battlefield. The battle we must wage is against our own internal enemy, drugs and alcohol! They are polluting society at a menacing rate. It will be our undoing before Iraq, Afghanistan, Korea or any single event from a terrorist. Drugs and alcohol are attacking us from every street corner. Just look at the alarming growth curve of thefts, violent acts from lack of sleep, CDV’s on the rise, drug dealing violence, vehicular mishaps from drug related reasons. The double whammy is, how high a percentage of our veterans fall into this category. If we applied the 700 billion dollars being used to bail out Wall Street (that has been robbing us all with their shady practices and non-existent oversight) towards treatment and primary education as a whole, we will receive a return on investment for the people rather than the fat cats that stole it in the first place.

I know without a doubt our future has to contain a plan designed to look at the big picture of drug and alcohol treatment. These growth curves are steep. In fact, I would venture to say going on a proactive program of prevention and treatment will pay the entire community back a thousand fold more than an East-West connector would benefit the small part of the population it will benefit. For the amount they want to spend on the east-west connector, you can build eight, ten story minimum security treatment centers. Treatment centers for handling drug and alcohol addiction ranging from a voluntary, anonymous check-in program, to court ordered drug or alcohol treatment. The focus of one of the units could be used for work rekease for non-payment of child support detainees. Another feature, important to fathers and mothers, is losing their children when participating in treatment. One of the units could be structured to have children staying in adjacent living quarters. This proactive plan has a far better return on investment for us all. I think it should be bought with a bond referendum and not used as the excuse for a penny tax. That way we have a specific commitment for that money, rather than the penny tax, which is an open check book for the administrator.




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